With each couple comes a new story. I love getting to know them and the things they like to do together. For Emily and Boomer sailing has been a part of their relationship since the beginning. It only made sense we do sailboat engagement photos!
Two of my favorites got engaged. Mary and I met 4 years ago through an online workshop. We became fast friends and started making it a priority to see each other at least once a year. I am 100% NOT shooting their wedding but I really wanted to do a little something with them. While I was visiting them recently we headed over to the beautiful, Terrain at Styers in PA and shot some fun photos. Gah, if you haven't been to this beautiful outdoor garden store of pure magic, GO!!
I love you two and can not wait to celebrate your day!
Yay, I had another chance to get in the water during these paddle board engagement photos. I had a really good time with Lesley and Matt and luckily they didn't hate me afterward. I am always asking my couples to do crazy slash fun stuff and hope they don't go running for the hills.
I won't lie. Sometimes I get nervous with engagement shoots. I worry I will shoot too many that are similar. However with each couple all their stories are so unique we always come up with the best ideas. Erin and John use to canoe all the time when they were dating in college. I really fell in love with their canoe engagement photos.
I'm slightly obsessing over Nicole's underwater maternity photos.
Underwater photography is something I have been inching my way into. Honestly, it's a little terrifying to me. Did I ever mention that I drown when I was young child? None the less I still want to do this. You may have seen one of my past underwater shoots. I shot a boudoir session at the springs. I also did wedding photos in Portugal. Shooting underwater is nothing like shooting top side. Your exposures and colors are completely different than the norm. It takes time to figure out how to handle the camera your camera in a giant water proof housing. I am really happy with this last underwater maternity shoot I did. I chose the springs again since it is the clearest water. For this shoot the only thing important to me was the form of her body. The water itself wasn't what I wanted people to see so I underexposed far more than usual. This works in the water because our skin can almost glow to a camera under the water.
These two. Ben and Rachel have been going to Big Talbot Island for some time. They have even buried love letters to one another there. It was only natural to do their engagement photos there.
So, I have been meaning to write this freaking post forever. I have met with so many other photographers and talked about this very topic about a million times. Every time they see me they politely yell at me to write this post.
So what I, and what I assume many other photographers, really want to talk to you about is all the wrong questions you are asking us and tell you the questions that really matter. We want you asking questions. We want you making informed decisions. This is YOUR wedding day! You should have the the right team working with you.
We know that once you get engaged one of the most exciting parts is planning. A lot of you get those awesome planning organizers. Listen, I had one. They are great tools but the "What questions to ask your photographer" section can really do you an injustice. For example
"What is your style?"
Now this question can be great if you know what you are asking. Do you know all the styles of photography? Do you know what you want or like? If you don't, then asking me isn't really going to help. When looking at photography try to realize what it is you like.
Right now the trending categories are
Documentary/Photo Journalistic : This style can be more of a hands-off approach by the photographer who will shoot the moments of your wedding day as they happen. A photographer's goal in this type of photography is to go un-noticed and let your day unfold. There will be very little in the way of posing or organizing of individuals and groups.
I find myself more in this category.
Fine Art : This style of photography is led by the individualism and personal creativity of the photographer. Therefore, it will have the ability to produce a unique set of images of your day. Depending on the photographer – there may be a great deal of intervention - or there may be none.
Jenn and Derr, owners of Flora + Fauna are hands down some of my most FAVORITE photographers. Their work is jaw dropping and a great example of fine art. Take a looksie!
Traditional/Classic : This style of photography has a very formal approach. The images are usually highly posed, simple, classic, and timeless wedding photos. The photographer will essentially tell you exactly what to do and when to do it.
Amanda and Landon of The Veil Wedding Photography have a beautiful approach to classic wedding photography. It's so pretty.
These are the top three main styles of photography in the wedding industry. Many photographers may even be a mix of styles. It's important you always look over your photographer's website from top to bottom. Get acquainted with their work. All photography styles can be beautiful. You have to decide what calls to you.
A lot of us are kind of a mix of styles, I know I am, and many of us are paving a new path in this industry. We are happy to explain and tell you all about it, we just want you to understand what we are saying.
"Can we see an album of a full wedding?"
Lord, this question is outdated. EVERY photographer has a blog, LOOK AT IT. We don't take hours out of our lives to post weddings to our blog for you not to see them. This is our way of showing you a full wedding. Please do us a favor and take the initiative to look. I will be 100% honest with you. When I get questions that are easily already answered on my blog it frustrates and hurts me. My goal is to be very vulnerable on my website so that by the time you contact me you are pretty confident you want to book with me. I could bet many others are the same. When you don't look it tells us you may just be bargain shopping and not really interested in our talent.
I am here to tell you we put our best of best in our portfolio. Duh. We know that is the first place you will look. But any real photographer who is confident in their work and ability will post blogs from various weddings. We want you to look over our work and be sure you like what a full day looks like. We don't want you surprised on your wedding day.
Also if the photographer you are interested in doesn't have a blog this could be a red flag. Maybe they are in the process of building it or overhauling it - I TOTALLY get that. If that is the case they will certainly have online galleries of weddings they can show you. If they don't you should ask WHY.
"What type of equipment do you use?"
Some of you may know the difference between my Mark III and a the 7D Mark II but for the most part you don't. It isn't always about the equipment it's all about how you use it. TRUST ME. Just being honest. If you know you want to print anything bigger than 16x20 then you should be asking about mega pixels.
What I want you to be asking is
DO YOU HAVE BACK UP EQUIPMENT?
This is probably one of the most important questions you can ask. Your photographer should have at least 2 camera bodies. What if one breaks? That is kind of what modern technology likes to do at the worst time. What if an overly excited drunk dancing man knocks one out of my hand and it crashes to the floor? (true story) This is your wedding day, there are no take backs. If their camera breaks and there is no back up then what?
This may piss a few photogs off. If you can't afford two yet then rent one. It's just careless and dangerous to show up with one camera. The same goes for flashes (if you use off camera lighting be sure to have extra bulbs), and lenses (at least 2 AT LEAST).
"Do you like to use natural light or flash?"
This question isn't in any of the books I looked at while preparing for this post, it should be. It is often I will get inquires for weddings that are completely indoors with no available light. I have in no way shape or form posted any photos on my site that do not have natural light in them. I will, on occasion, pop a flash out for the reception and dance photos, but as a whole I am a natural light photographer.
It is important that you know what type of lighting you like in photos and evaluate your day. If you have pinned and fallen in love with all these photos of outdoor weddings or receptions be sure your wedding follows suit. Once you know what you want be sure your photographer is in line with it. Again you don't want any surprises on your wedding day!
"Can I have a discount? Why is it so expensive?"
Here we go. You may not like me after this. Good, high quality wedding photography is not going to be cheap. It just won't be. If you are thinking less than 3,00o for the engagement shoot, digital files and 8 hours you will be kidding yourself. Weddings are a luxury expense. If you can't afford it you probably shouldn't be buying it. I could go on about what it cost to run a business but it isn't necessary. I do get it to a degree, I do. I never pay full price for my car.
However, our smart phones are nearly $1000. MANY of us have the one you know I am talking about. It's all about your priority. When you attempt to buy your phone do you ask for 1/3 off ? You will only have that phone max 4 years. My photos will be around for generations.
There is also something I really want to express here. In Jacksonville, for the most part, we are a community of photographers. We all get dinners together, text daily, even shoot together. We know what the others are charging. Many of my closest friends are photographers and we actually all try to stay in the same price range so we know you aren't hiring us based on price but based on our work and personalities - we believe in community, not competition.
*side note it will be shared in our community groups on FB if you are rude or trying to pin us against each other for better pricing*
I am going to end on that note for now. I will post part 2 soon!
Thanks Flora + Fauna and The Wedding Veil Photography for allowing me to share your photos!
Olly and Caroline, along with their closest family and friends came over from Austrailia, England, South Africa and various parts of the world to be married in one of the most romantic cities in the South, Savannah. They had their wedding at The Mackey House.
Matt and Kala got engaged in downtown Fernadina so it only made sense to do their engagement photos there as well.
I'm telling you guys you are not ready. Dan and Katie's retro wedding at the The White Room in St. Augustine is AMAZING! I mean I wasn't surprised. Katie is a graphic designer so it's obvious why the design of this wedding is flawless. Since day one when I met them I knew it would be. Every shoot I have done with them has been since they booked me. Did you see their amazing St. Augustine Ice Plant engagement photos here or Katie's Audrey Hepburn inspired bridal shoot here?
Dan and Katie, I need you two to know this has been such a pleasure and honor getting to know you and shooting this wedding. I adore you both and the love you have for each other as well as for all of your friends and family.
If you can't get enough or maybe you attended the wedding and want to see all the photos I got of you dancing you can see their entire wedding here. Trust me there are a ton more amazing photos that I just could post.
Dress | Fancy Bridal
Hair | Gwynne Mims Salon
Make Up | Amanda Hopcraft
Rings | Catbird Jewelry
Cakes | Sweet n' Flour
Reception Venue | The White Room
Large 36" Sparklers | Superior Fireworks
These two. Brett is one of those HILARIOUS people. You know the ones. The one who doesn't even try and before you know it you are going to pee your pants. Michelle is just crazy about Brett and you can see it in every photo. These two are why I love my job.
I hope you enjoy their very cute and fun St. Augustine engagement photos.
I LUUURRRVE them.
I recently worked on a beautifully styled bridal shoot. At first it was going to be a bridal shoot for Katie but as we began brainstorming and I talked with a few vendor friends before we knew it we had a full blown styled shoot. We decided we should add Katie's maid of honor as well. What's more fun than getting all dolled up with your bestie?!
I AM IN LOVE.
There is only one way this shoot could have turned out as lovely as it did and that's because I was able to work with some amazing local vendors and I think you should too. When you are planning your wedding I highly recommend all of these ladies!
| Vendors |
Stylist | Taylor Ghost
Florals | The Wilding Collective
Dress | Fancy Bridal
Baked Goods | Sweet n' Flour
Stationery | I Meg Your Pardon
Hair | Gwynne Mims Salon
Make Up | Nicole Bostick
Ribbon | Silk and Willow
Ring | Emily Triplett
Ring Box | The Mrs Box
Mail Sorter | Tin Roof Vintage Rentals
Vintage Furniture | Jeanne with Perfect Imperfections by Jeanne
This shoot was featured on
These cotton field engagement photos are total swoon worthy. Alex's Mema has grown up on this property and Alex has been going there since she was a kid. It only seemed natural to do their engagement shoot there.
When Alex was a little girl she use to wash all the dogs in the back of this old truck. We couldn't very well just walk by it without getting at least a photo or two.
Alex and Wes have been crazy about each other since they were kids. It is an insane honor to get to photograph a love like theirs. I can't wait for next Spring.
Here are the long awaited underwater wedding photos I have been telling you about!
When Cat and Sean asked me to photograph their elopement in Terciera, Portugal I took it as my push. My push to FINALLY buy the underwater housing I had been wanting for so very long. So without further adieu here are their photos.
Cat and Sean were so unbelievably patient and willing. After spending over an hour in the very cold Atlantic Ocean I asked them to swim over to these lava rocks for me...
So do you guys love them?
As promised here is part 2 to Cat and Sean's Azores Islands, Portugal elopement. (Did you miss part 1)
See the days in Portugal are long. The sun sets around 10pm. So we had to break our shooting up into two days. On this day we drove around the island and just pulled over to take pictures. It was pretty amazing.
We started at the little farm house they were staying in.
Then we hopped in the car and began chasing the sunset.
My pictures will never do justice to that sunset.
Stay tuned for part 3, the underwater photos!!
You GUYS. I am so so so excited to be sharing this North Carolina Art Gallery Wedding. Seriously. Once day I sent a whiney text to my (stylist) friend Taylor. She had moved away in the last few years and I always wanted to shoot a Styled Wedding with her. Anyways I was telling her how I missed her and had this very raw idea for a styled shoot wished she were here to help. Well Taylor being who she is said she'd be more than happy to do it if I'd come put to Chaple Hill, NC to shoot it. So of course I did and I don't regret it one bit!!
The idea behind the wedding was boho meets modern. I knew I wanted blues and gold for the wedding tones. Taylor brought in the idea of two artist getting married in the space where they showed their work. I thought a reception in an Art Gallery was such a great alternative to a traditional reception.
Take a look...
We used pottery by HAAND. Imagine all of your guests being able to go home with a custom made cup as their wedding favor!
Oh and they were just as delicious as they were beautiful.
When I saw the ring from Emily, I just started swooning. I uh, think I may have lost my wedding ring.. Guess I'll need a new one just like this!
I am still swooning over this bouquet. It is full of garden roses, thistle, anemones, dahlias and various local wild greenery that Becky found in the area. Lovely, right?
SERIOUSLY. This floral head crown... Becky is a floral genius.
| Vendors |
Wall art by
All ceramics used for table settings, vases, cake stand and food display:
Custom engagement, wedding bands and bridal jewelry:
Cake and Macaroons:
Annie Pambaguian of
Gallery design and furnishings by:
Letterpress Invitation and Place Card Design:
Eleanor Annand of
Hand Calligraphy on Place Cards:
Beth Schaible of
Planning & Photoshoot Stylist:
Taylor Ghost of
Becky Cardenas of
Badgley Mischka for
EEEEEEEKKKKSS! I have been waiting to share this Portugal elopement with you guys for what seems like forever. So do you remember Cat & Sean? I did their carnival proposal engagement photos. YESSSSS, that couple. Ok so Sean was sent away shortly after their engagement to a remote location, Terciera, Portugal in the Azores Islands. It didn't take Cat long to decide they just had to get married there. She was given three months to visit Sean while he is stationed there. So in those short three months Cat planned her wedding and eloped there. She chose Biscoitos, Azores, Portugal.
Let me tell you a little bit about the country. The way of life is so simple there. The majority of the tiny island is farm land. Most of the people own an itty bitty plot of land and have a personal farm. Cat rented one of these houses and it was AWESOME
So goats and cows pretty much run this island. They are every where.
This is Biscoitos from above. Cat and Sean were married there in the middle. I love this picture of Cat and Sean. She is just so over filled with emotion and happiness on her wedding day.
Cat and Sean did a day after shoot for all of their photos together that I will be posting soon. However that isn't all. Not only did they do a day after shoot but they did UNDERWATER photos! So stay tuned for that awesomeness!!
| VENDORS |
Dress | Grace Loves Lace
Mandala Ring | The Fifth Element
Bracelets | Alex and Ani
Back Necklace | Shannon Noelke Metal Arts
Flower Bouquet Bracelet | Turquoise Crush
Agh!! I love EVERYTHING about these St. Augustine Ice Plant engagement photos! Whether it be the couple, location, popsicles, Katie's dress, or Dan's complete adoration for her . It was down right awesome!
I can NOT wait for their wedding!!